This is a pre-order! Book will ship in February.

On April 2, 2024 I sent out a newsletter asking people to send me questions. I promised to answer a question a week. This book is the result of that (ongoing) project. A collection of essays from my newsletter. All your favorite essays. Properly edited. Fewer typos! In a handsome hardbound 5×8", 262 page book.

Order directly from us and get a signed edition with an EXTRA SECRET STORY. Plus stickers and assorted crap.

(…and yes, that is an amazing Kate Bingaman-Burt cover.)